I am Wenske

Born and raised in the Netherland, now living in Stittsville, Canada with the man that’s my childhood sweetheart and our beautiful son.

Lifedesigner. Empowerment coach. Writer of the book ‘Jouw Leefstijl Formule’ (Your Lifestyle Formula). Changemaker. And so much more …

I am a stubborn believer in the good. I know there is gold to be found in the shit, even if it’s only that it fertilizes the growth of new fruits. Honest truth is what lasts. There is always a way, even if it means you have to go back. Nature knows – we are nature and therefor self wise beyond knowledge.

Wenske Pasman, life designer, coach, by Wenske, life design for driven women

Love, love, love is everything – it’s medicine if we use it like light, feathery confetti, the healing evolves in the spaces between.

Wenske Pasman, young girl, supergirl, by Wenske, life design for driven women

As from a young girl on, I wanted to save the World,

making it a more loving and equal place for all and everyone.

I’ve learned down the road, that it’s all about the energy everyone of us hold. Love is energy, and how better you take care of your energy first, how more love you have to give.

The way we feel and act effects our relationships, work, parenting, environment and community every day. So we better do it from wholeness with respect, loving hearts and pleasure.

I have a lot of people to be grateful for, a lot of things I have to share with you but I also feel that short is sweet, slow is fast and time is precious.

Thank you for showing up on here, you’re for sure awesome already!

Send me a message when you feel it’s time to talk about yourself and how to design your days in a way you can be your fun and loving self again.

With love & pleasure,


Reconnect to Recharge, audio, by Wenske

Reconnect to Recharge

This audio guide is your moment between the busy to help you to feel better; relaxed, fulfilled, joyful, loved.


How I roll

I have been where you are and I know how it feels.

It’s probably the most lame cliche you read on every coaches or influencers website. But it’s true and relevant.

I know how it feels ‘cause I have been running in that same damn hamster wheel, giving it all while hoping for magical relieve of the weight on my shoulders till life itself kicked my ass and I officially burned-out.

But I won’t get into how I healed my wounds and found my hallelujah back. Because you won’t find the solution in a better life-work schedule, dragging your butt into the newest gym classes, eating more of what ever or doing the exact same things that I do. And that’s the essence of your situation; it’s all about you.

Reconnecting with yourself, with what you actual need to feel better – relaxed, nourished, empowered – is key to getting your fun, wise, loving self back into the game.

So instead of giving you a done for you apple pie, I help you create your own from the ingredients you already have.

It’s maybe kind of messy first. But no matter the circumstances, you will be confident in making as many delicious pies as you like, while also enjoy the freedom to be wildly creative. No monkey training here but little sparks of light that strengthen your own inner wisdom.

It’s just you, yourself and maybe me for a while, till you get the hang of how to roll with it yourself.


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